Masks or Truth - Which one would you choose ??

Masks - A covering for all or part of face worn as disguise.
Most people wear masks everyday whether in professional life or personal life. But do we realize that this is the main cause of all the worry . To deal with people , we modify the truth or present the truth in a way that the receiver would find that good. Don't we do it ? In case the answer is no , you need not read further as you are one of the persons who speak the truth always .
People think before they say about what would other person think if i make this statement. I cannot afford to break my friendship/ relationship with the other person. I would like to tell you all that this is something which would make you feel conscious or may develop a guilt in you. Don't be like that.
Understand one thing "It's not love on which strongest foundations are built , they are built on the decency of merciful lies ... Period !!!" . Do not lie to people whom you care about.
People change over a course of time. People who were once a good friend rarely talk now. People say that I cannot speak the truth in every relation else it would break my friendship or relationship . Don't get scared of loosing people in life because if someone wants to be in your life he/she would always be and if someone doesn't want to be with you , no matter how hard you try they never will.
Let's discuss about importance of truth in a friendship.Good friends are those whom you can call anytime or with whom you can do anything you want. Just realize one thing always be truthful to a friend whom you do not want to loose in life. Trust is the most important thing in friendship either you trust a person or you don't that's it. If you lie in a friendship at any point of time , that friendship will start fading away in a course of time.
Same goes for relationships . No need to elaborate on that.
Stop being selfish and care about people !! Respect them instead of manipulating them with a lie !!

Masks can help you in short course but truth will help you in long run !!!

Embrace yourself !!!!!!!!!!

This is the post from one of my friends . Her feeling expressed and that's it. You would like this.

Failure! I faced it today… very badly. Yes I failed in something that I thought I would be able to do! I felt like a complete loser…. I even told myself that I suck, “XYZ, you suck”

Jab kabhi bade kuch bole toh sunn leni chahiye unki baat, varna pachtaaoge!

Today morning I was warned by my Mom for not driving. She had explicitly told me that “There will be too many cars on the roads, its heavy traffic time. Please DO NOT drive”. And I cared 2 hoots about that. I was super confident that I would be able to take it through.

I knew my weakness. I knew where I lacked. I had faced similar situations before. In spite of that, I decided to drive the car today. As I was driving, my car stopped on the highway. It stopped multiple times. It may have stopped 3-4 times. I looked like an absolute fool, trying to start my car every time it stopped. Too many people were honking behind my car. There was an Auto driver who even came and abused me. He called me a ‘Mother fucker’. I felt like crying at that moment. I was in the middle lane, trying to start my car. I tried 2-3 times but I could not start it. Finally there wasn’t any option and I had to start my car. It was a bit of a slope and my car moved behind. I pulled the emergency brake immediately. Didn’t know what to do, just did what I felt was right at that moment. There was a maroon colored Honda city behind my car. I guess I almost bumped my car into it. But pulled the emergency brake at the right time.

My only motive at that point of time was to take the car in the left most lane and to call a friend for help. Frankly speaking, after all that happened on the highway, I had lost all my confidence to drive again. I was praying in pain and trying to drive. With immense efforts, I skipped a flyover, drove it till the left most lane and parked it in the side.

I kept calling my friend. As soon as he came, I broke down. We managed to reach office with the car. He helped me by driving it till the office from the point this incident occurred. I was out of my mind. Didn’t know what to do with had happened. I was just not feeling right. I kept crying badly.

I locked myself in a washroom and kept crying…

Finally there came a voice. It was my inner voice. It said “Stop, Stop crying right now”. Champions don’t cry. Papa ki tarah champion bann na hai na, roke kuch nahi hoga. You have to pick yourself right now. You have to pick yourself every time you fall. And that’s the only way to live life.

In this world, there are two kinds of people.

First category ---> People who sit and sulk. They cry each time they fail and they keep crying there on.

Second category ---> People who cry each time they fail but they know to pick themselves up. They work harder every time they fall only to grow up as a “Winner”

And I belong to the second category. I just won’t give up. This is my life and I am not a loser. I have to work harder than the previous time, learn from my mistakes and evolve as a driver. I won’t give up. Yes, I am serious and I mean it.

I will start working on my weaknesses from today itself. This will ensure that I do better the next time. It doesn’t matter to fail. Everyone fails. What matters is, how well you pick yourself up each time you fail. And I am going to do just that.

I will learn what I’m not good at and try again!!!!

XYZ will fall, she will fail but she will learn from her mistakes and that’s what matters the most to her. Love and embrace yourself! :)